Author: Abdul Vasi

There I was, sitting on a park bench, staring at the trees swaying in the breeze, and feeling like my life had somehow run off the tracks. Nothing was working the way it should. I had hit one of those inevitable walls life throws at you, the kind where even your morning coffee doesn’t bring joy anymore, and every day starts to feel like you’re stuck in a loop. It was clear that I needed a reset. Life’s funny that way. It pushes you until you’re forced to change, whether you’re ready or not. And that’s where I found myself…

Your gut sinks. It’s that feeling that wakes you up at 3 a.m., heart pounding, breath shallow. You’re completely, utterly broke. The numbers in your bank account don’t lie — they’re in the red, screaming at you that you’ve hit rock bottom. Bills are stacking up like a fortress of failure, and all you can think about is how to dig your way out. I’ve been there. In fact, let me tell you a story. The Moment It All Falls Apart I still remember the day Raghav sat across from me at the local chai shop, eyes hollow, staring into…

Life, they say, is a constant journey of self-improvement. And for a man who is serious about growing into the best version of himself, every day presents an opportunity. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being better than you were yesterday. If you’re reading this, chances are, you’re ready for that journey. So, let’s dive in — here are 30 ways to start becoming a better man, today. Not tomorrow, not next week, but right now. 1. Own Your Mistakes Ramesh, a close friend of mine, used to blame everyone but himself when things went south. It wasn’t until…

We all dream of building wealth. But here’s the thing: wealth isn’t just about making money; it’s about keeping it. And if there’s one golden rule to wealth-building that’s stood the test of time, it’s this: “Never lose money.” Sounds simple, right? But the truth is, playing defense with your money is an art form, one that requires strategy, patience, and a bit of wisdom from the school of hard knocks. Today, we’re diving deep into the story of how playing defense with your money is the real secret sauce to building wealth. Spoiler alert: it’s not as glamorous as…

There’s a secret no one tells you about aging—it’s not just the years that get to you. Nope, it’s the sneaky little habits and situations that quietly suck the life force right out of you. You know, the ones that have you feeling like a withered balloon by the time you’re 35, even though you swear you were 21 just last week. If you’ve ever woken up feeling like your soul’s been vacuumed out overnight, this one’s for you. Let’s dive into the 13 culprits responsible for aging you faster than that app that turns your face into an 80-year-old!…

Sometimes, the best company you can have is your own. It’s like having an exclusive backstage pass to the most epic show — your life. And guess what? You’re the star, the director, and the audience all rolled into one! There’s something magical about enjoying activities solo, without the need for validation or company. So, here’s a guide to 16 things you need to do alone, just for the joy of it. Let’s dive in! 1. Go for a Long, Aimless Walk No destination, no hurry, no one asking where you’re headed. It’s just you, the wind, and the rhythm…

It was a rainy evening in Bangalore. I had just returned home after a long, exhausting day at work. My mind was cluttered with a thousand thoughts, none of them particularly useful. As I sat down with a cup of tea, I thought to myself, “Is this it? Is this the best I can be?” Have you ever had that moment? That point where you just know that something has to change? It’s that nudge from within that whispers, “You’re capable of more. You can do better.” That was my wake-up call. Self-improvement is a journey we all embark on…

It was a particularly chaotic Monday morning. The phone was ringing, emails were piling up, and my to-do list was growing longer by the second. In the midst of all this madness, I caught myself feeling anxious, my mind running a hundred miles an hour. Then I stopped and asked myself, “What would a monk do?” Now, I’m no monk. Far from it. But over the years, I’ve learned that peace of mind doesn’t come from external circumstances—it comes from within. Monks, with their serene smiles and calm presence, seem to have cracked the code for staying cool, no matter…

Introduction: The Social Media Detox In today’s hyper-connected world, social media has become an integral part of our daily lives. It’s where we share our milestones, connect with friends, and often seek validation. But what happens when you hit the pause button on this relentless digital stream? For a whole year, I, Abdul Vasi, decided to quit social media to focus on my mental well-being. This is the story of my journey, the lessons I learned, and the best practices I discovered along the way. Chapter 1: The Decision to Disconnect Story: A Moment of Clarity It all started with…