Alright, let’s talk about budgeting. Just the word itself is enough to make most of us cringe, right? It brings to mind images of spreadsheets, restrictions, and that dreaded feeling of being constantly deprived of the things we actually want. If budgeting were a Bollywood character, it would be that strict sasuma (mother-in-law) who is always disapproving, constantly telling you what you can and can’t do. My financial life, when I attempted to budget, felt like a never-ending saas-bahu saga – filled with constant restrictions, constant fights, and constant stress, and it was a cycle that I was desperately trying to break free from. I was always told to budget, I always tried to budget, but I was constantly failing, and I was constantly feeling deprived, and honestly, I was completely over it!
My existence was like that old Indian proverb, “Paisa bachao, par apni khushi mat bhulao” – save money, but don’t forget your happiness, which is a fancy way of saying you shouldn’t save money at the expense of your well-being. I was trying to save money, I was trying to be responsible, but I was constantly feeling as though I was missing out, and it seemed as though I was forever being restricted by my self imposed budget. I was looking for ways to save, but I didn’t want to feel like I was living a life of restrictions. I needed a solution, something that would allow me to save, but without having to feel deprived of the things that I truly enjoyed.
My quest for a more enjoyable way of saving money began, as most good things do in India, with a cup of chai and a lot of daydreaming. I wasn’t trying to discover some complicated financial formula; I was simply trying to figure out how I could achieve my financial goals without having to restrict my life and without having to constantly monitor my spending. I was tired of the spreadsheets, I was tired of the restrictions and I was tired of the feeling of always missing out on something. I needed a system that was as easy to implement, as it was enjoyable to maintain. I needed a financial system that worked with me, and not against me!
My “aha” moment came while I was having a conversation with my dost (friend). He was always saying that “Life is too short to worry about every single rupee!” and that’s when it hit me. He wasn’t irresponsible, he was just very strategic about his spending, and he wasn’t about to sacrifice his own happiness in the process. And that was when I realized, that perhaps, the problem wasn’t me, but the system itself.
And that’s when I decided to ditch the traditional budgeting approach and embrace a more revolutionary method – one that was all about enjoying my life while also saving money. The secret to my success was about shifting my focus from what I couldn’t do, to what I could do, and it was a complete game changer! It was like discovering a cheat code to life, a system that was not only effective, but also incredibly enjoyable.
Instead of focusing on every little expense and meticulously tracking every single rupee, I focused on what I valued. I started putting my money towards experiences, rather than things. It was about investing in myself, rather than wasting my money on material possessions. It was about spending my money on creating amazing memories, rather than simply buying things that would soon lose their shine. It was about embracing a life that was both rich in experiences, and also financially sustainable.
So, instead of cutting back on everything, I decided to spend money on the things that I truly enjoyed, and I did it in a smart and strategic way. I still enjoyed my morning cup of chai, but I’d make it at home instead of buying it from the shop. I’d still go out with my friends, but instead of going to an expensive restaurant, we’d cook together at home and share a delicious meal. I would still go on weekend getaways, but instead of staying in expensive hotels, I would look for more affordable alternatives. I was learning how to spend more consciously, and I was discovering that the key to happiness wasn’t about limiting yourself, but about being intentional with your choices.
And the results were simply amazing! Not only was I saving money without feeling deprived, but I was also living a much more fulfilling life. My bank balance started growing steadily and consistently, and I was having the time of my life in the process. It was like discovering a new flavour that you just can’t get enough of, and it was a path to financial freedom that was both rewarding and effortless. It was no longer about restrictions, it was all about making smarter choices and about living a life that was both financially sound and also a lot of fun!
The key here wasn’t about depriving myself of the things I loved, it was about transforming my approach to spending and embracing a more intentional approach to my finances. It was about understanding that there is a big difference between what we need and what we want, and learning how to prioritize the things that truly matter. It was about finding a balance between saving money, and living a fulfilling life.
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So, are you ready to ditch the spreadsheets and embrace a more revolutionary method for saving money? It’s time to say goodbye to deprivation and hello to a life that is both financially secure and joyfully abundant. Visit abdulvasi.com today for a free consultation, and let’s start your journey to a happier and wealthier life!
And yes, if you happen to have any good recipe ideas to share, I’m always eager to learn something new, and I’m always ready to enjoy a delicious home cooked meal!
